You've been seeing this guy at least once a week for a few months now. You're both sushi aficionados, his big brown eyes make you melt, and he even laughs out loud at The Mindy Project.
It's great—except that you have no idea where things stand. He has yet to introduce you as his girlfriend or bring up being exclusive, and you're craving that "couple" title and the security that comes with it. Talk about blurred lines. However you can use these tips to subtly up the chances that he'll want to turn casual dating into something more.
You think you desire something serious with this particular guy—but before you do anything else, be sure.
Step back and ask yourself the following questions, Trespicio suggests: Do I have fun with him? Is my mood elevated when I'm with him? Do I feel good about myself after we part ways? Does he improve my life? Do I feel respected? One thing to look out for: If he's acting extremely jealous or policing your every move, you need to really reevaluate things.
And never tell yourself, "He's a nice guy and has done nothing wrong, so I guess I should be with him.
Be in a relationship where you feel good when you're without him, but you feel even better with him. It seems counterintuitive, but experts' No.
Does he try to see you whenever he's free? Does he seem genuinely interested in what you have to say?
Does he have as much fun on dates as you do? These are likely signs he's in it for real, so enjoy being with him and relax about making things "official. You don't have to stay in the dark forever, though.